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RabbiEE
06-30-2007, 02:53 PM
From my article this week:

Fly fishing is filled with times of frustration: getting rained out on the stream, losing a fly in a low hanging branch, being unable to thread your thin tippet line through the hole of a tiny little hook because your hands are too cold. One time I drove an hour from home to fish a new river. When I opened the trunk to put on my gear, I discovered that I had left my fly fishing rod at home. I had my vest and my net, but no rod. I sat by the car and called myself an idiot repeatedly.

Perhaps the ultimate frustration of fly fishing is not catching any fish. Sometimes no matter how advanced your casting skills, or how perfectly tied your flies, the fish simply will not rise. Trout are picky. And the task we set before ourselves is difficult: to attract a fish to bite a hook wrapped in thread and wool.

When I am on the river, and nothing is happening, no matter what fly I use or where I cast, I get frustrated. I try to rationalize the situation. I say to myself: “I’ll just use this time to practice my casting.” That usually does not work for long. The sport is called fly fishing, not fly casting.

Over the years, I realized that frustration from not catching fish usually has to do with expectations. As my skills developed and my casting improved and I could catch many more fish in an afternoon, my expectations began to rise. Today, a few hours on the stream that do not yield a single bite might cause some serious frustration.

But expectations on the fly fishing stream are probably a waste of time. Not too long ago, someone asked me for the most important tip in fly fishing. I said to him: “Be sure to look up from the river every once in a while, take a breath of air, hear the soft sound of the flowing water, and appreciate the beauty of all that surrounds you.” In fly fishing, when I expect to catch trout, I am guaranteed to be frustrated sometimes. When I expect to be out in nature, to soak in the solitude of the stream and to leave behind the stress of the world, I find fulfillment. An afternoon of fly fishing always provides me with solace and a sense of peace.

I may still get frustrated when not a single fish rises. When that happens, I will try to remember the time I went fly fishing and left my rod behind. After I discovered that I could not fish, I decided to go hiking along the stream. I saw deer and ducks. I got stuck in “sinking mud,” almost becoming a permanent resident of the stream. I spent time outside, in nature, and I was able to look around, to relax and to appreciate the beauty of our world. And I learned that sometimes you do not need a rod and reel to have a great fly fishing trip.

From: The Fly Fishing Rabbi Blog

styan
06-30-2007, 04:05 PM
Good post....I eliminated the frustration part long ago.
Not that I've master anything, but that I've learned the most theraputic aspect for me is my surroundings. Of course I am dissappointed if I have a less than productive day than I'd imagined, but the fact that I was able to venture out to such a beautiful place 100 miles or so from home far overshadows any glimmer of frustration I might get from the technicalities of FF'ing..
Left the crowded rat race of So Cal 15 years ago, and I STILL pinch myself every time I'm out standing in a beautiful place only an hour or so from home.

cardiac
06-30-2007, 04:06 PM
From my article this week:

Fly fishing is filled with times of frustration: getting rained out on the stream, losing a fly in a low hanging branch, being unable to thread your thin tippet line through the hole of a tiny little hook because your hands are too cold. One time I drove an hour from home to fish a new river. When I opened the trunk to put on my gear, I discovered that I had left my fly fishing rod at home. I had my vest and my net, but no rod. I sat by the car and called myself an idiot repeatedly.

Perhaps the ultimate frustration of fly fishing is not catching any fish. Sometimes no matter how advanced your casting skills, or how perfectly tied your flies, the fish simply will not rise. Trout are picky. And the task we set before ourselves is difficult: to attract a fish to bite a hook wrapped in thread and wool.

When I am on the river, and nothing is happening, no matter what fly I use or where I cast, I get frustrated. I try to rationalize the situation. I say to myself: “I’ll just use this time to practice my casting.” That usually does not work for long. The sport is called fly fishing, not fly casting.

Over the years, I realized that frustration from not catching fish usually has to do with expectations. As my skills developed and my casting improved and I could catch many more fish in an afternoon, my expectations began to rise. Today, a few hours on the stream that do not yield a single bite might cause some serious frustration.

But expectations on the fly fishing stream are probably a waste of time. Not too long ago, someone asked me for the most important tip in fly fishing. I said to him: “Be sure to look up from the river every once in a while, take a breath of air, hear the soft sound of the flowing water, and appreciate the beauty of all that surrounds you.” In fly fishing, when I expect to catch trout, I am guaranteed to be frustrated sometimes. When I expect to be out in nature, to soak in the solitude of the stream and to leave behind the stress of the world, I find fulfillment. An afternoon of fly fishing always provides me with solace and a sense of peace.

I may still get frustrated when not a single fish rises. When that happens, I will try to remember the time I went fly fishing and left my rod behind. After I discovered that I could not fish, I decided to go hiking along the stream. I saw deer and ducks. I got stuck in “sinking mud,” almost becoming a permanent resident of the stream. I spent time outside, in nature, and I was able to look around, to relax and to appreciate the beauty of our world. And I learned that sometimes you do not need a rod and reel to have a great fly fishing trip.

From: The Fly Fishing Rabbi Blog

The Fly Fishing Rabbi? Oye vay!

fish james
06-30-2007, 07:18 PM
“Be sure to look up from the river every once in a while, take a breath of air, hear the soft sound of the flowing water, and appreciate the beauty of all that surrounds you.” In fly fishing, when I expect to catch trout, I am guaranteed to be frustrated sometimes.

From: The Fly Fishing Rabbi Blog[/QUOTE]

I do this a lot, since i spend A LOT of time just 'practicing my cast' which still isn't anywhere near what it should be. Anyway, good blog

campfire
06-30-2007, 11:23 PM
When I am fly fishing I am not in the city and I am not at work! What frustration?

fulano
07-01-2007, 12:36 AM
I essentially have given up golf. I play it when I have to with vendors and contractors through work and at charity scrambles and such. I used to play alot, but found that I was always stressed after a round of golf. I have essentially given it up.

When I started fly fishing, the first couple of times out getting a wind knot or popping off a fly in the fish's mouth because I set the hook too hard were just amusing little pieces of this new hobbie. About the third time I went out, I ended up with one of those major snarl jobs where the split shot, both nymphs and the indicator are all with three inches of each other in a ball of mono. I set down my rod and just started a cusing tirade right there on the stream. It hit me like a ton of bricks right then! "You are turning this is into golf, Idiot!"

Since that day I decided fishing is for fun and relaxation and it was up to me to make not mess that up. It has been a great time ever since. I can't say I don't still say a naughty word when things go wrong though.